*An addendum to the post, “My Note to My Blue…”*
…The thing is, some others in my past were given my all, complete love, faithfulness, loyalty, support, my whole heart. They just didn’t appreciate it, couldn’t receive it, took advantage of it. There comes a time when you realize you deserve someone who treasures you as much as you do them, treats you well and gives you their all, the same way you do. Everyone deserves to walk away from things not good for them, to find things that are. I made the choice to leave bad relationships behind and find someone who treasures me, and I’m forever grateful for her. No amount of ugly words can take that away.
So to all who read this:
If you’ve ever had a great love and didn’t appreciate them, didn’t receive and take care of the love they gave, and they walked away from you because they finally got tired of it, stop blaming it on them, be big enough to admit you screwed it up. Admit you lost them because you didn’t acknowledge what you had, or were selfish, or didn’t take care of the gift you were being given or whatever you did. Don’t take your anger out on them, lash out at them, or act like THEY did YOU wrong. Don’t make up lies about what happened to serve your own ego. That’s not how you GROW. Be true, If you loved them say so, if they meant the world to you say so, instead of ripping them with ugly words you probably don’t mean, because you CAN’T take those words back. Be honest about what you did and what you didn’t do. Take ownership. Maybe then you can have better relationships in the future, learn from errors, and not lose out on something good in your life.
Hi Honey, this is your wifey “Leigh” lol,
I just want to say that on the Eve of our 3 Year Anniversary I sit here sharing quality time with you and looking at you, and I’m so lucky and blessed! The song that says “God bless the broken road that led me to you” is so true, you see:
I realize I’m thankful for any adverse things I went through before I met you, because how else would I have learned to appreciate who you are? How would I have discerned the “good thing” when it came along?
You bring an inner beauty, a pure heart, extreme intelligence, wonderful talents, and a deep love for me that is my gift daily. I’m thankful that I didn’t have to “settle” for something less, someone that would hurt me or mistreat me, because I know many do settle. Do I also love that you’re GORGEOUS and SEXY too? Of COURSE lol!! And I love how we literally laugh together every single day. What I love most is you’re not just my love, you’re my helpmate and partner in life. You are my soul-deep,
Happy Anniversary Love…
~Heaven-Leigh~
Oh, and thanks for letting me make a post to you haha! :-D
“You deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy, somebody who does not complicate your life, somebody who won’t hurt you.” — (via eletheowl) (via anditslove)
“Bottom line is that couples that are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else. But the big difference is they don’t let it take them down.” — Scrubs (via kari-shma) (via quote-book)
“It’s like you always know what I need…that’s love.” — Anonymous (via thatslove) (via anditslove)
“Not cheating… that’s love.” — Anonymous (via thatslove)
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