August 2011
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Learning From Love Lost (by Heaven-Leigh)
*An addendum to the post, “My Note to My Blue…”*
…The thing is, some others in my past were given my all, complete love, faithfulness, loyalty, support, my whole heart. They just didn’t appreciate it, couldn’t receive it, took advantage of it. There comes a time when you realize you deserve someone who treasures you as much as you do them, treats you well...
July 2011
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My Note To My Blue...
Hi Honey, this is your wifey “Leigh” lol,
I just want to say that on the Eve of our 3 Year Anniversary I sit here sharing quality time with you and looking at you, and I’m so lucky and blessed! The song that says “God bless the broken road that led me to you” is so true, you see:
I realize I’m thankful for any adverse things I went through before I met you,...
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“You deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy, somebody who does not...”
– (via eletheowl) (via anditslove)
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“Bottom line is that couples that are truly right for each other wade through the...”
– Scrubs (via kari-shma) (via quote-book)
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“It’s like you always know what I need…that’s love.”
– Anonymous (via thatslove) (via anditslove)
April 2011
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“Not cheating… that’s love.”
– Anonymous (via thatslove)
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hipsandhoops asked: Thanks for following, I followed back! I love that your page is full of love and positivity (from what I have seen thus far) Hugs from Atlanta!
Nicky
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“Do not think that love in order to be genuine has to be extraordinary. What we...”
– Mother Teresa (via thresca) (via quote-book)
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Chivalry, Roles, & Reciprocity
Chivalry isn’t dead…
…at least in our house it isn’t.
We have fallen into traditional roles in our relationship (with a few exceptions). I fit the masculine role and Leigh, the feminine:
I open doors for her. Walk on the outside of the street. If we’re walking together, and there’s an unsavory character on her side, I put myself between them. My side of the bed is closer to the door. I take out...
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“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”
– Friedrich Nietzsche
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“All love that has not friendship for its base, is like a mansion built upon the...”
– Ella Wheeler Wilcox
shutterslackerblog-deactivated2 asked: hi! it's me, the author of shelovingher.tumblr.com.... i think i've submitted a question here... i changed my URL to sheplusher.tumblr.com :-) and i'm still following you^_^
shutterslackerblog-deactivated2 asked: hi!! i adore your blog! i have a 3-year relationship with my girlfriend and although she doesn't know, your blog is my inspiration to keep things going for us. :)
BTW, i just made a tumblelog dedicated to our relationship. i tried your URL <shelovesher> before i came to your blog, but Tumblr said it's already taken (obviously!). that's how i found you. anyway, i...
BTW, i just made a tumblelog dedicated to our relationship. i tried your URL <shelovesher> before i came to your blog, but Tumblr said it's already taken (obviously!). that's how i found you. anyway, i...
September 2010
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journeyingontheroadlesstravelled asked: Absolutely love your blog!!!! :)
August 2010
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“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants....”
– -Elizabeth Gilbert (via melodysblog)
well, shit. i’ve been thinking about just this. ooh.
(via dopegirlfresh)
sits quietly in a corner and thinks about every word in this quote…
(via beejeweled)
—- Definitely. Us. *grin*
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“She is my Heaven. I am her Earth.”
– Blue
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Guardian-Idealist Relationships
Guardians (protectors) and Idealists (champions) often make good pairs. Guardians may appreciate the Idealists’ sensitivity for others and their deep interest in their partner’s success. Idealists can appreciate the Guardians’ practicality and ability to deal with day-to-day matters that may interrupt the Idealists’ dreams for the future. With Guardian mates ...
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Blue's Personality Type
ISFJ - Guardian: the Protector
(Introverted Sensing Feeling Judging)
The Protector type is called such because you feel your life is best used to protect those you love from the pitfalls of life, to see to their safety and security. You belong to the larger group called Guardians. You find great satisfaction in assisting the downtrodden. You are not talkative with strangers, but you can chat...
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Leigh's Personality Type
ENFP - Idealist: the Champion/Inspirer
(Extroverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiving)
Champions are rather rare, say 2-3 % of the population. They consider intense emotional experiences as being vital to a full life. Champions have a wide range and variety of emotions, and a great passion for novelty. They often can’t wait to tell others of their extraordinary experiences....
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“So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.”
– Paulo Coelho
(via beejeweled)
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“You are the best thing that’s ever been mine.”
– Mine by Taylor Swift (via lyricallysomething)
July 2010
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June 2010
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“I hope you know that loving you has spoiled me forever.
What we have together...”
– Linda Lee Elrod
May 2010
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“Love seeketh not itself to please, nor for itself hath any care, but for another...”
– William Blake
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“I wanna make you smile whenever you’re sad, carry you around when your arthritis...”
– Movie: The Wedding Singer (via kari-shma) (via quote-book)
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“When I saw you I fell in love, and you smiled because you knew.”
– William Shakespeare | Submitted by raifk (via quote-book)
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“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; but remember that what...”
– Epicurus (via coruscating) (via foxism) (via booklover)
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"Nice pic. Do you cheat?"
Recently, I put up a new default picture on a social networking site. Someone sent me the following message (and I’m paraphrasing):
“Nice profile pic… Do you cheat? Lol… j/k.”
Now mind you, my page is pretty much devoted to my relationship. One doesn’t have to wonder if I’m really happy or not. I guess she wanted to make sure… on the sly, of...
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hips.
*My inspiration? Watching my love dance at a wedding…*
girl, i see you.
moving through
a sea of
mighty aphrodites
vying for your attention
making a beeline to me.
eliciting a subtle
lick of my lips
the sway of your hips
marks the passage of time
taking with it
this breath of mine
my heart
tick.
skips a beat
tock.
watching
your body rock
to the groove
takes me back to
first...
“If you kiss someone with feeling, they know it. And you know it. It’s like...”
– Marc St. James - Ugly Betty. (via quote-book)
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April 2010
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“What many have sought but failed to find, a few, by chance, have stumbled...”
– Unknown
March 2010
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“You don’t have to promise me the moon or stars … just promise that...”
– Author Unknown
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Are girls drawn to "bois" who resemble their dads?
I admit that I’m the more masculine one in our relationship, and we tend to fall into traditional male and female roles (I’ll blog about this later). Leigh often remarks that I remind her of her father. It’s usually due to something I’ve said or some random behavior/mannerism I have.
For example, I fuss at her constantly about driving with less than half a tank of gas...
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“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our...”
– Richard Bach (via kari-shma) (via quote-book)
February 2010
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Meet the Parents
So, I finally met Leigh’s parents two weeks ago. They were in town for a sporting event. Now, they’ve known of me for a while and vice versa; via holiday, birthday, and general check-in phone calls. But this is the first meeting in person.
I was nervous as hell. I mean these are THE PARENTS!
Leigh assured me that I had nothing to worry about. “They’re just my parents”,...
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“At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.”
– Plato (via romanceisdead)